1st December 2011 marked my first year at IBM. Syukur Alhamdulillah. Great journey (so far), super best managers, flexible working hours. And most importantly, I managed to spend sooo much time with Damia and good pay. Syukur syukur....I experienced wonders, while working here in IBM. My life changed a lot. I was able to see her grow up. Specially during the first 2 years kan, banyak changes to the lil one. Alhamdulillah. My prayers were answered. I experienced bad stuffs in the past. Yela, Allah SWT dah kata, ada hikmah di sebalik apa yang terjadi. Dia kasi kita kesusahan dulu and after that kesenangan and hopefully, good experience ni berpanjangan. On top of that, I am sooo happy that my friends are happy too, when 1) pre - when they know about the benefits here in IBM; 2) during - when they applied for a job here and went through the recruitment phases; 3) post - changes to the family.
Pre
They asked about all the benefits. I answered. A lengthy one. And they are happy. Again, it depends on your priority and preference. Whether you are looking for a career or a job? I would say kalau cari job, susah sikit la. Coz u get a high pay once u joined the company but, long term - the bonus n increment might not be THAT great. But again, the flexibilities - it's like a once in a lifetime opportunity la, lebey kurang.
During
They will update on the stages that they went through. Seronok tau....coz they are all excited when they wanna join and will be able to enjoy the same benefits and flexibilities.
Post
Friend 1: "My mum said that my kids are closer to me and they seem so happy nowadays. Also, I am able to work from home when needed. And, for the first time ever, I did not swear when I need to finish up the report, even though it is already 2am". When she first joined (even before that pun), I told her that I'm doing this - more for your family. Not really for you, yourself. True enough, the family likes it and benefits from it. Syukur Alhamdulillah.
Friend 2: After all the updates on the hiring process, she said "Thanks for the info on the vacancy babe!" Like....it was sooo meaningful to me. Poyo? Hmm...ntah....It means a lot to me. Hopefully, she gets the job.
Friend 3: He text me and asked about the benefits. He was allll excited about the benefits n all, specially bila his wife baru je lepas deliver their first baby. So, basically he is looking for a more stable career - where the pay is good and gets to spend as much time as possible, with the family. Hmm...betul la...seronok buat orang lain happy. Hopefully, he gets the job too.
Seriously....coz somehow, the job (I mean, the flexi and benefits) would be able to make them change for the better, for their family. Sebab, kebanyakan cuti yang a person (specially the one with a family) takes up, mesti like family related stuffs or nak pegi bank, etc etc. Tapi kan, actually, lepas balik tu, they all keje smp memalam. Like as if they work the whole day jugak. But here, you can opt to work from home and finish up later or just inform your boss that you'll be away in the morning ke ape ke....but later, u sambung buat keje. The basic foundation is, you are able to finish up your job, on time. Camne pun u buat or kat mana, that doesn't matter that much. BUT......it depends on 1) your manager 2) the nature of your job. Kalau dah memang kena dtg office, dtg jela kan? Cumanya, flexi tu ada. That's the most important thing. Manusia ni, lagi tak kasi buat, lagi la dia nak buat kan? So, bila diberikan peluang tu, of course la dia pandai nak gunakan dgn berpada-pada. In the end, bila dpt that kind of flexibilities, ramai yang bole buat keje elok-elok + tak la rasa stress sgt keje. Coz most of the time, stress about work is not so much of the work. It is more of the people and those minor stuffs.
Again, syukur Alhamdulillah...
My life, Mr P & ...
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
If you have to do it, just do it!
"Exams seem to be testing our memories and not our intelligence these days". Agree, no?
I still remember, during my first year of degree programme. There was this lecturer where her style is as such that, you need to memorize what you have learned. Whatever it is, she wants the exam answers to be exact - word by word, point by point. Mcm photocopy buku, bagi balik kat dia. And I was sooo disappointed. Although my answer was right, apparently, it was marked wrong coz she wants it that way. Coz what I did was, I reproduce the answers using my own words.
So, papa called that afternoon and somehow, I did cry a lil bit and expressed my disappointment. And he said something, simple yet menyakitkan hati (at that time). Although he mentioned it in a soft tone and nice way...yada yada yada....i still couldn't accept it. His statement was: "if you have to do it, just do it. Dah takde cara lain kan? Buat jela...ikut je. If you have to memorize, u do it. If you have to explain, do it." That time, sgt sgt geram. Like...helllooo??? I'm seeking for ur advice and yet you gave me that kind of statement. Tapi, sekarang, I faham and applied it to my daily life. The advice was one of the ways that taught me to be "a person" today.
Yes, I did use that method. Somehow, subject yang kena hafal, hafal jela. Dah takde choice, u want ur results to be good kan? But, at one point...sambil menghafal tu, baru perasan..owh, no wonder lecturer ni suruh hafal. Sbb, ada certain words dalam tu, if you replace with other words, the whole thing would be different pulak. And now, what I do is, I praktikkan dalam real life. If you have to do it that way, just do it. So long as, tak menambah dosa, tak guna cara yang salah. Takyah nak complaint ke ape ke, just push urself, just do it. Ala, orang boleh cakap...panjang lebar nasihat or cara utk lead kita ke sesatu tempat / destinasi. But at the end of the day, it is all up to us. Buat je.....if berjaya, syukur alhamdulillah, tu la something for us to be proud of. Tapi if tak, at least, dia dah mengajar kita something. Ye tak?
I believe, contohnya, bila buat guna cara tak betul, mesti ada yang tak kena. Karma - balasan Allah SWT tu, kejapppp je. Cash dia bagi - kat dunia dah rasa. Padan muka sendiri kan? Dulu, penah ada satu subject ni....lecturer tolong pushkan my marks. Sbb sepanjang 2 thn blaja, paling teruk pun dpt B for 1 or 2 subjects. Tetibe subject tu, memang hampeh giler. Jangan kata myself, lecturer pun heran. Padahal tak susah mana, cuma maybe concept dia salah. So, lecturer tolong. Now, bila amik ACCA, subject yang 70% sama with that particular subject, da 10-11 kali amik pun tak pass jugak. Hmm...balasan Allah SWT nak bagi kan?
Even dalam daily life....kan pepatah melayu ada berkata, sepandai-pandai tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh ke tanah jua. Ataupun, dalam Islam, kalau memende yang kita buat tu tak betul, tiada keberkatannya di situ. Maybe effect dia tak nampak sekarang. But, yea...u never know.
Orang selalu berkata, ala, duit tak ckup la, nak buat/beli itu ini. Hmm...camne nak cukup? Kalau pegi sana sini, ada je nak buat excuse. Ada je nak cari jalan utk byr kurang (dgn cara menipu yang indirect punya). Memang rasa mcm "coolnye dia", "pandainye dia ayat orang tu", "cheeky nye dia", "pandainya dia escape", "ala, muka dia...mesti orang percaya nya". Tapi, nak ke kita, membesar, menjadi lebih matang, atau membesarkan generasi kita dgn cara menipu mcm tu? Memang la, nampak mudah. Senang nak escape atau dpt dengan cara mudah. Yela, nanti orang kata, eh, bodoh la dia ni. Tak payah beratur, kenapa nak waste time beratur jugak? Camtu la contohnya kan. Tapi, maybe orang tu menunggu, ikut giliran atau bayar the same price mcm orang lain, dia biar diri dia digelar bodoh ke ape ke, sbb dia tahu, di sisi Allah SWT, dia lah manusia yang baik. Mengikut peraturan, tak menipu orang, biar orang kata psal dia - sbb dia yang dapat pahala pun dan bersabar.
Ntah la...when it comes to menipu, memang among my friends semua, I memang sgt sgt particular - bila tang exam. Biarlah tak tahu camne nak jwb, my principle is - jangan meniru. Coz ini memang sama dgn menipu. Dulu kena kutuk time sekolah...like sooo poyo, tanak kasi kwn tiru answer sikit ke ape ke...but, that was my own principle. Camne skali pun. Kalau kat college ke memane pun, kalau lets say ada tips / hint given for something and another person wasn't paying attention, I memang la bengang kalau org meniru what I wrote, for what I heard. Kedekut? 1) Yes.....coz that was part of my effort to listen and pay attention. 2) No....bukan kedekut. More of against my principle.
Hmm...tak tahu la. Just my own opinion. How about u guys?
Monday, December 19, 2011
Mistakes
1) I've made some mistakes in the past. Yes, I know and I do not want my kid(s) to do the same thing. I've experienced it and full stop. They are not allowed to do the same mistake. Lots of mistakes, yes....but those are things that will become the "foundation" of raising them up. To ensure that they won't fall into the same trap or do bad stuffs. Lots of things done outside of the house. Parents do not know and they won't know. Siblings are not aware and they won't notice. Owh yes, but definitely, not talking about alcohol or drugs. Never ever. Hopefully, insyaAllah.
2) Often, people go out, hang out with friends, etc....they do stupid stuffs, dare or asked to do some stupid stuffs. But do you actually follow? I mean, yes...those days, I might. But now, I've changed. You may think that Im a serious person, think as you wish. But, the most important thing is...I won't do "cool stuffs" that a lot of people may think that..."hey, that person is sooo cool and sporting". Like...I don't know...to certain extend, I may do it, if tak menjatuhkan maruah. But, if I was asked to do really stupid stuffs yang really menjatuhkan maruah, I may reject and just don't mind people talking about how uncool I am. Coz for me....being "cool" or sporting is only at THAT time. But menjaga maruah - is forever. Ntah la....I mean, yes la...I might do it. But, there is always a limit. There is always a boundary.
On Saturday night, we went out. Owh...by the way, last weekend was one of the "bestest" weekends for us. Ntah la...I was soooo happy that Mr P was at home, spending much time with the family. Takde ape pun, cuma personally rasa best. Borak-borak like zaman muda remaja dulu....we went out on Saturday night, left the baby with the maid. Just because we got a call. Further details cant be revealed. But, basically about non muhrim in the house. Full stop. So, we all terjah. Tak mara, cuma nasihat. We sent the gal back home. 3+am baru sampai rumah.
Ntah la, lepas da jadi parents ni, lepas da kahwin, we all lagi particular. Now I understand kenapa org tua selalu bising kalau non muhrim lepak together walaupun dorang tak buat anything. Kekadang naik meluat tengok those yang stay together, mak bapak kat kampung, tapi kat KL tak penah kena tangkap. Kenapa meluat? Sebab mak bapak orang kampung yang sentiasa puji anak dia baik. Yela, parents mana nak ckp anak dia jahat? Tapi, kalau da terang-terang....? Hmm....terpulanglah. Lagi satu yang mcm bukan Islam. Sorry, mungkin agak bias la sikit ye. Tapi, ape objective utk kahwin, kalau da bertahun memang duduk skali? Hanya utk ada anak legally? Isn't that stupid? Ko dah duduk skali, dah berapa kali main ntah. Dah rasa semua. Ala, bukan utk yang bukan Islam je. Yang Islam pun sama. Yang paling best, time bulan puasa. Duduk skali, tak puasa sbb dia kata, "ape gunanya puasa kalau kejap lagi I buka? Mana boleh tahannn"....urggghh~!! Tak suka nye dgr ayat camtu. Yet, beriya nak plan for the wedding, for the event, sibuk nak kahwin, tunggu mamat tu propose, etc, utk ape? Hanya utk ada anak legally. Hanya utk nanti pegi memane, aunties uncles tanya, bole cakap dah kahwin. Tapi, ada beza ke? Coz before kahwin pun, pegi sana sini and ckp that you are staying together? Or, bila nak propose or ada free time, pegi holiday sana sini. Ape bezanya, u pegi holiday tu dgn u pegi honeymoon? Like takde significantnye kan? Ye ye, perspective saya dah berubah. Sila jangan komen lelebih.
College days, yes...we hang out. A lot of boys and gals...lepak in one room. Pernah ada incident yang pegawai Jabatan Agama datang and bagi warning. Kebetulan dis gal was at that house, class dia da abis and she was helping the guys angkat kain, sbb nak hujan. The rest of the guys semua gi class. She din know that another guy was actually sleeping upstairs. Kebetulan pegawai Jabatan Agama datang. So, this gal kena warning dah. Ada lagi kes yang lepak rermai - coz our college, girls boleh masuk block guys, sebab takde security guard. Block gals ada security guard. So, lepak la reramai. Yang bestnye, time spotcheck. Semua girls akan turun bawah. Like soooo obvious, but what the heck? Kesian guard2 tu semua....terpaksa bersubahat ngan bebdk college mcm we all nih.
Ok, conclusion is....tatau ape I merepek. But, item no 1) and 2) relates to mistakes and at times, mistakes relate to maruah. All in all, sgt tak suke memende yang kena act cool or kena act sporting kalau ianya menjatuhkan maruah. Kalau suka-suka yang ada limitnye, still boleh dipertimbangkan la...
2) Often, people go out, hang out with friends, etc....they do stupid stuffs, dare or asked to do some stupid stuffs. But do you actually follow? I mean, yes...those days, I might. But now, I've changed. You may think that Im a serious person, think as you wish. But, the most important thing is...I won't do "cool stuffs" that a lot of people may think that..."hey, that person is sooo cool and sporting". Like...I don't know...to certain extend, I may do it, if tak menjatuhkan maruah. But, if I was asked to do really stupid stuffs yang really menjatuhkan maruah, I may reject and just don't mind people talking about how uncool I am. Coz for me....being "cool" or sporting is only at THAT time. But menjaga maruah - is forever. Ntah la....I mean, yes la...I might do it. But, there is always a limit. There is always a boundary.
On Saturday night, we went out. Owh...by the way, last weekend was one of the "bestest" weekends for us. Ntah la...I was soooo happy that Mr P was at home, spending much time with the family. Takde ape pun, cuma personally rasa best. Borak-borak like zaman muda remaja dulu....we went out on Saturday night, left the baby with the maid. Just because we got a call. Further details cant be revealed. But, basically about non muhrim in the house. Full stop. So, we all terjah. Tak mara, cuma nasihat. We sent the gal back home. 3+am baru sampai rumah.
Ntah la, lepas da jadi parents ni, lepas da kahwin, we all lagi particular. Now I understand kenapa org tua selalu bising kalau non muhrim lepak together walaupun dorang tak buat anything. Kekadang naik meluat tengok those yang stay together, mak bapak kat kampung, tapi kat KL tak penah kena tangkap. Kenapa meluat? Sebab mak bapak orang kampung yang sentiasa puji anak dia baik. Yela, parents mana nak ckp anak dia jahat? Tapi, kalau da terang-terang....? Hmm....terpulanglah. Lagi satu yang mcm bukan Islam. Sorry, mungkin agak bias la sikit ye. Tapi, ape objective utk kahwin, kalau da bertahun memang duduk skali? Hanya utk ada anak legally? Isn't that stupid? Ko dah duduk skali, dah berapa kali main ntah. Dah rasa semua. Ala, bukan utk yang bukan Islam je. Yang Islam pun sama. Yang paling best, time bulan puasa. Duduk skali, tak puasa sbb dia kata, "ape gunanya puasa kalau kejap lagi I buka? Mana boleh tahannn"....urggghh~!! Tak suka nye dgr ayat camtu. Yet, beriya nak plan for the wedding, for the event, sibuk nak kahwin, tunggu mamat tu propose, etc, utk ape? Hanya utk ada anak legally. Hanya utk nanti pegi memane, aunties uncles tanya, bole cakap dah kahwin. Tapi, ada beza ke? Coz before kahwin pun, pegi sana sini and ckp that you are staying together? Or, bila nak propose or ada free time, pegi holiday sana sini. Ape bezanya, u pegi holiday tu dgn u pegi honeymoon? Like takde significantnye kan? Ye ye, perspective saya dah berubah. Sila jangan komen lelebih.
College days, yes...we hang out. A lot of boys and gals...lepak in one room. Pernah ada incident yang pegawai Jabatan Agama datang and bagi warning. Kebetulan dis gal was at that house, class dia da abis and she was helping the guys angkat kain, sbb nak hujan. The rest of the guys semua gi class. She din know that another guy was actually sleeping upstairs. Kebetulan pegawai Jabatan Agama datang. So, this gal kena warning dah. Ada lagi kes yang lepak rermai - coz our college, girls boleh masuk block guys, sebab takde security guard. Block gals ada security guard. So, lepak la reramai. Yang bestnye, time spotcheck. Semua girls akan turun bawah. Like soooo obvious, but what the heck? Kesian guard2 tu semua....terpaksa bersubahat ngan bebdk college mcm we all nih.
Ok, conclusion is....tatau ape I merepek. But, item no 1) and 2) relates to mistakes and at times, mistakes relate to maruah. All in all, sgt tak suke memende yang kena act cool or kena act sporting kalau ianya menjatuhkan maruah. Kalau suka-suka yang ada limitnye, still boleh dipertimbangkan la...
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Damia...1.5 years (episode 6)
Damia suka pakai seluar dua lapis. Sejuk ke? Ntah. Tetibe kang tgk, dia da sarung ag satu seluar on top of the earlier on. Kalau tang makan, nasi mesti nasi panas. If da hidang like 10-15 mins, sejuk sket, dia taknak da. Lauk is no biggie. Agaknya dia tau bab masak-memasak ni mmg mak dia fail sket. But nasi mmg particular la. N drpd zaman bdk sebaya dia dok makan blended food, soft texture food, dia dah tak suka da. Dia nak real nasi, not porridge. Dia x suke if letak kuah/sup kasi lembut ke ape ke. Also, bila makan, dia suka suap sendiri. Bagi jela, kasi dia experiment texture makanan tu. Apa yg dia suka nak masukkan dlm mulut. Dia lagi enjoy. Kekdg dia masukkan nasi dlm air. Mmg diberitahu, it's not good. But sometimes, kasi jela. Maybe dia nak blaja, camne rasa air yg dicampur nasi? Camne rupa nasi yg da kembang? Things like that. Let her do it. Let her experiment it. Contohnya, klau buat susu. Drpd awal2 dlu, if dia nak susu, I tak penah halang dia duduk dkat. Obviously, kena pantau tang air panas tu. But I allow her utk bukak penutup air panas, bukak penutup air biasa, allow her utk bukak tin susu or even cedok susu tu. Pegang tangan dia, show her camne nak scoop out the powder, shake the bottle. Also, dia tau, sbb drpd kecik dah diajar, everytime habis minum susu, kena tutup botol tu. So, dia akan cari, "tutup, tutup" and dia akan tutup sendiri botol tu.
Kalau makan, dia x suka duduk asing and I won't allow it to happen pun. Or even call the maid to handle her. Sbb, tu la time kita nak sesama ngan dia. Klau time makan pun nak soh maid handle gak, susah la. Slalunya I will say kat sesapa yang berkenaan, I akan kata, I tak suka nanti da tua, damia suruh maid handle I nak makan. Teman I. Atau pun, suruh I dok meja lain time makan. Penah tgk iklan petronas yang bapak dia sedih anak soh bapak dia duduk meja lain coz bapak dia "melepas" time makan or buat sepah time makan? Haaa...camtu la rasa bdk ni if kita treat dia like dat time dia kecik. Biarlah dia buat sepah. Biarlah kena lap, sapu, vacuum atau ape saja, remah-remah makanan dia tu, asalkan dia rasa sense of belonging, she is part of the family, should be treated equally.
Ape lagi yang damia tak penah rasa? Dia tak penah rasa rambutnya dipotong, except time cukur jambul tu. Tu pun bebetul hanya sikit rambut yg dipotong. Dia x penah botak. Even rambut depan pun tak penah dipotong. Pakai clip je. Investment utk clip jgn citer la. Da byk da. Ntah memane da pun. Memang tok D, GM and ramai org lain bising psal rambut damia. But I don't want to cut it. Let it be. Biar dia pakai clip.
Abt nyamuk. Dulu damia mmg mangsa nyamuk. Spray la camne pun, tutup la pintu tingkap camne pun. Slalu dia gak jadi mangsa. So, GM dia tanya pharmacist. We bought her the moisquito patch. On average, harga dia like rm1 satu la. Bau mcm aromatherapy sikit. Bulat, blue color. So, lekat je kat baju dia kat blakang. True enough, mmg jarang dia kena gigit nyamuk. Susah sgt la, alhamdulillah. Kekdg g memane, ada la org tanya, ape tu yg melekat. Tetiap kali kena la explain. Tapi xpela, maybe org lain tatau and hopefully by knowing that, dorg bole manfaatkan kat anak2 dorg or whoever yang sesuai ke.
Klau bdk lain ada soft toy or bantal busuk ke ape ke, damia's is a blanket. The one that I bought during our honeymoon in paris. Mmg jadi dia punya fav la. Kalau g memana, dia mesti nak bawak. Tapi, bezanya, klau basuh pun, dia x kisah "bau" dia hilang. So, tak la risau sgt when it comes to cleaning it. Since blanket tu tebal, so klau hujan renyai or embun ke, takde payung, bole la cover kepala dia. If dulu g memane, xde alas nak letak dia, bole guna selimut dia jugak. Klau sejuk - definitely la kan? N since selimut tu besar, kekdg if g memane, takde selimut, mama dia pun bole join skali. =)
Kalau makan, dia x suka duduk asing and I won't allow it to happen pun. Or even call the maid to handle her. Sbb, tu la time kita nak sesama ngan dia. Klau time makan pun nak soh maid handle gak, susah la. Slalunya I will say kat sesapa yang berkenaan, I akan kata, I tak suka nanti da tua, damia suruh maid handle I nak makan. Teman I. Atau pun, suruh I dok meja lain time makan. Penah tgk iklan petronas yang bapak dia sedih anak soh bapak dia duduk meja lain coz bapak dia "melepas" time makan or buat sepah time makan? Haaa...camtu la rasa bdk ni if kita treat dia like dat time dia kecik. Biarlah dia buat sepah. Biarlah kena lap, sapu, vacuum atau ape saja, remah-remah makanan dia tu, asalkan dia rasa sense of belonging, she is part of the family, should be treated equally.
Ape lagi yang damia tak penah rasa? Dia tak penah rasa rambutnya dipotong, except time cukur jambul tu. Tu pun bebetul hanya sikit rambut yg dipotong. Dia x penah botak. Even rambut depan pun tak penah dipotong. Pakai clip je. Investment utk clip jgn citer la. Da byk da. Ntah memane da pun. Memang tok D, GM and ramai org lain bising psal rambut damia. But I don't want to cut it. Let it be. Biar dia pakai clip.
Abt nyamuk. Dulu damia mmg mangsa nyamuk. Spray la camne pun, tutup la pintu tingkap camne pun. Slalu dia gak jadi mangsa. So, GM dia tanya pharmacist. We bought her the moisquito patch. On average, harga dia like rm1 satu la. Bau mcm aromatherapy sikit. Bulat, blue color. So, lekat je kat baju dia kat blakang. True enough, mmg jarang dia kena gigit nyamuk. Susah sgt la, alhamdulillah. Kekdg g memane, ada la org tanya, ape tu yg melekat. Tetiap kali kena la explain. Tapi xpela, maybe org lain tatau and hopefully by knowing that, dorg bole manfaatkan kat anak2 dorg or whoever yang sesuai ke.
Klau bdk lain ada soft toy or bantal busuk ke ape ke, damia's is a blanket. The one that I bought during our honeymoon in paris. Mmg jadi dia punya fav la. Kalau g memana, dia mesti nak bawak. Tapi, bezanya, klau basuh pun, dia x kisah "bau" dia hilang. So, tak la risau sgt when it comes to cleaning it. Since blanket tu tebal, so klau hujan renyai or embun ke, takde payung, bole la cover kepala dia. If dulu g memane, xde alas nak letak dia, bole guna selimut dia jugak. Klau sejuk - definitely la kan? N since selimut tu besar, kekdg if g memane, takde selimut, mama dia pun bole join skali. =)
Damia...1.5 years (episode 5)
Disebabkan dia anak tunggal (setakat ni) and dia banyak di rumah (takde kids sebaya dia), dia agak kurang gemar mengshare her toys. Klau her own toys, susah sket dia nak kasi org lain main. Tapi, klau food, if cakap "mintak sikit", dia kasi la. But again, it depends. Klau kata sikit, dia akan kasi sikit je or dia akan pegang mende tu but hulur kat u suruh rasa sikit. But, if u kata, "nak", highly likely dia akan kasi the whole thing.
If dia tak suka or tak kasi, memang dia akan ckp "no". Basically, she understands the concept of "no". On top of that, if she requested for some stuffs and I wouldn't wanna give her, for various reasons like bahaya, pedas, brg org or I tanak belikan or maybe tajam, I will say, "that's not urs. Tu auntie/uncle/kakak or whoever punya." She'll understand and put it back. Told ya? Dia anak mendgr kata. Yela, maybe not alllll the time. Dia pun ada gak tunjuk tantrum dia. Cuma, out of 10 times, maybe 8 or 9 times, memang dia mendgr kata la. Alhamdulillah.
Puji yela mmg puji, tapi nanti meluat lak org kan, mcm anak kita perfect sgt right? Tak la..bkn camtu. I'm just telling the truth of ape yang jadi in reality. It's up to u to interpret or picture it. Ada jugak the not so good part, I've highlight it right? Kekdg dia show her tantrum, kekdg dia tepuk/pukul muka kita, cubit sket mama dia yang tembam ni, nak masuk mulut memende ntah pape. But for me, that's normal la. Dia bdk kecik kan? But syukur alhamdulillah, rasanya, dia advance sket compared ngan bdk sebaya dia. Cuma tanak paksa dia. Mana yg bole ajar, ajar la. Dia accept, accept. Klau stakat soh dia amik anything tu, dia da boleh fhm, bolehla membantu.
Klau dia kena mara, kekdg mara n tanak ckp ngan dia. After dat, dia faham n dtg buat muka cute tu. Cairrrr la jugak. Or kita mara, dia akan gelak. So, kita pun jadi gelak in the end. But dia tau la kita tgh mara actually. Or if dia kena mara n dia tau dia salah, if pukul pun, dia takkan nangis. Hmm...tu la hannah damia. Damia pulak duduk ngan Tok D n GM. So, bila dia kena mara, ada org nak pujuk. Sometimes, I kena bgtau my parents or even the maid yg sayangkan dia mcm cucu sendiri, if I tgh mara dia, jgn pujuk dia. If nak nangis, nangis la. If the time is right, I will calm her down and hug her as comfort. Biar dia tahu yg dia salah. BUT, biar I je yg buat the scolding part. Not anyone else.
If dia tak suka or tak kasi, memang dia akan ckp "no". Basically, she understands the concept of "no". On top of that, if she requested for some stuffs and I wouldn't wanna give her, for various reasons like bahaya, pedas, brg org or I tanak belikan or maybe tajam, I will say, "that's not urs. Tu auntie/uncle/kakak or whoever punya." She'll understand and put it back. Told ya? Dia anak mendgr kata. Yela, maybe not alllll the time. Dia pun ada gak tunjuk tantrum dia. Cuma, out of 10 times, maybe 8 or 9 times, memang dia mendgr kata la. Alhamdulillah.
Puji yela mmg puji, tapi nanti meluat lak org kan, mcm anak kita perfect sgt right? Tak la..bkn camtu. I'm just telling the truth of ape yang jadi in reality. It's up to u to interpret or picture it. Ada jugak the not so good part, I've highlight it right? Kekdg dia show her tantrum, kekdg dia tepuk/pukul muka kita, cubit sket mama dia yang tembam ni, nak masuk mulut memende ntah pape. But for me, that's normal la. Dia bdk kecik kan? But syukur alhamdulillah, rasanya, dia advance sket compared ngan bdk sebaya dia. Cuma tanak paksa dia. Mana yg bole ajar, ajar la. Dia accept, accept. Klau stakat soh dia amik anything tu, dia da boleh fhm, bolehla membantu.
Klau dia kena mara, kekdg mara n tanak ckp ngan dia. After dat, dia faham n dtg buat muka cute tu. Cairrrr la jugak. Or kita mara, dia akan gelak. So, kita pun jadi gelak in the end. But dia tau la kita tgh mara actually. Or if dia kena mara n dia tau dia salah, if pukul pun, dia takkan nangis. Hmm...tu la hannah damia. Damia pulak duduk ngan Tok D n GM. So, bila dia kena mara, ada org nak pujuk. Sometimes, I kena bgtau my parents or even the maid yg sayangkan dia mcm cucu sendiri, if I tgh mara dia, jgn pujuk dia. If nak nangis, nangis la. If the time is right, I will calm her down and hug her as comfort. Biar dia tahu yg dia salah. BUT, biar I je yg buat the scolding part. Not anyone else.
Damia...1.5 years (episode 4)
Apa yang lainnye Damia from other babies or should I say, apa yang Damia tak dpt or dpt experience, maybe tak mcm other babies?
Damia, during her first year, rasanye penah mandi in her bath tub like less than 10 times. Caya tak? Ye, kolot n traditional. Say whatever u want. But, during her 1st year tu, dia akan mandi either kat dlm sink or bwh tap air tu. Both ways pun, dia akan dipegang dan air hala bhgn belakang dia. Cepat dan pantas. Ag bersih rasanya. Ntah la. Sbb if letak dia dlm bath tub, letak la segala mende utk tak kasi dia jatuh, duduk straight, etc, but mmg tak confident la. Pastu air tu guna byk rasanya. Kena bilas ag baby. Baik pegang je dia, sabun cecpat, bilas. Tak bazir air bebyk nak takung. Ntah la, tu cara saya. It differs from one individual to another. Bila da dkat sethn tu, baru la dia mandi byk kali sket dlm bath tub. But after dat, dia da pandai berdiri n jalan stable, dia tak suka da. Dia prefer mandi berdiri. So, ok la....ag sng. =)
Damia takde baby cot. Our bed is king size and bhgn tepi dia ada ruang skit. So, in total, lebar dia adalah 7 kaki but tilam hanya 6 kaki. Nampak besar. Before kahwin, when we choose the bedframe, memang dah take into acc, klau ada anak, bahaya ke tak. Susah nak maintain ke tak. Ada bucu tajam ke ape ke. Semua tu dah difactor in during the decision making process. Too early? Hmm...tak kot. Sbb mmg fikir nak guna lama kan? Abis tu? Takkan nak beli today, ag dua tahun tukar lagi bed? Uishh....mungkin saya tak byk sgt aaaa duit utk dibazirkan smp camtu skali.
So, back to d baby cot thingy. Dulu time dia dlm perut ag, I still remember how I want her nice baby cot, etc. I plak jenis, if I want, I want something nice, quality and most of the time, it is expensive. I won't settle for something less. Otherwise, xyah beli langsung. So, time tu, Mr P tak brape agree. Coz mahal sgt. Ok fine. In the end, xyah beli langsung. Syukur alhamdulillah x beli coz xyah bazir2. Sbb rasanya if beli pun, damia takkan tido situ. Yela, ni citer experience org yg mende tu takde depan mata. Klau ada baby cot tu, tatau la. It may be different or even the same situation like this jugak. Entahla, tapi...I love to have her near me. Sampai skarang, dia manja. Dia akan tido dedkat myself or Mr P. Sometimes, tido pegang tangan. =) bole kekdg, dia bgn tetgh malam, cari papa dia, g tido kat papa dia. So, rasanya klau dulu beli, maybe gak baby cot tu jadi tempat letak brg or akan di let go secepat mungkin. Till now, dia still tido ngan we all. Ye ye, tau...pakar kata x bagus smp anak tu da besar. Effect itu ini. Yes, tau sume tu. But we have our own plans. How her own room will look like when she grows up. Meanwhile, we want her to be really close with us as much as possible. Kang da besar, naturally (apart from dia akan dididik), dia mesti nak tido sendiri, in her own room. Bila anak da besar, sibuk lak nanti soh dia dekat n spend time dkat2 ngan kita kan? So, time kecik ni, biar la dimaksimumkan.
Time baru2 blaja makan super solid food (yang takyah nak blend2), mmg slalu we all makan mouth-to-mouth. Kekdg in public, org pandang. But so what? Anak aku kottt. Xyah guna tgn, rasa dia da takde sket (so that tak pedas or masam sgt) or telah dichew sikit.
Damia ada collection baju yg sgt byk. Ada satu kotak dah di let go. Satu kotak, masih disimpan coz mama dia syg sgt sgt. Highly likely boleh digunakan oleh adik(s) damia. Satu ag big stack - for her current usage. So that day, terpaksa g ikea jap, beli almari for her. Tung tang tung tang papa dia pasang, nak letak baju/dress dia yang byk tu. Collection kasut - bole tahan la. Now ada dia kotak kasut, penuh. Satu for below 6m. Satu ag above 6m. Siap label bagai. =)
Damia, during her first year, rasanye penah mandi in her bath tub like less than 10 times. Caya tak? Ye, kolot n traditional. Say whatever u want. But, during her 1st year tu, dia akan mandi either kat dlm sink or bwh tap air tu. Both ways pun, dia akan dipegang dan air hala bhgn belakang dia. Cepat dan pantas. Ag bersih rasanya. Ntah la. Sbb if letak dia dlm bath tub, letak la segala mende utk tak kasi dia jatuh, duduk straight, etc, but mmg tak confident la. Pastu air tu guna byk rasanya. Kena bilas ag baby. Baik pegang je dia, sabun cecpat, bilas. Tak bazir air bebyk nak takung. Ntah la, tu cara saya. It differs from one individual to another. Bila da dkat sethn tu, baru la dia mandi byk kali sket dlm bath tub. But after dat, dia da pandai berdiri n jalan stable, dia tak suka da. Dia prefer mandi berdiri. So, ok la....ag sng. =)
Damia takde baby cot. Our bed is king size and bhgn tepi dia ada ruang skit. So, in total, lebar dia adalah 7 kaki but tilam hanya 6 kaki. Nampak besar. Before kahwin, when we choose the bedframe, memang dah take into acc, klau ada anak, bahaya ke tak. Susah nak maintain ke tak. Ada bucu tajam ke ape ke. Semua tu dah difactor in during the decision making process. Too early? Hmm...tak kot. Sbb mmg fikir nak guna lama kan? Abis tu? Takkan nak beli today, ag dua tahun tukar lagi bed? Uishh....mungkin saya tak byk sgt aaaa duit utk dibazirkan smp camtu skali.
So, back to d baby cot thingy. Dulu time dia dlm perut ag, I still remember how I want her nice baby cot, etc. I plak jenis, if I want, I want something nice, quality and most of the time, it is expensive. I won't settle for something less. Otherwise, xyah beli langsung. So, time tu, Mr P tak brape agree. Coz mahal sgt. Ok fine. In the end, xyah beli langsung. Syukur alhamdulillah x beli coz xyah bazir2. Sbb rasanya if beli pun, damia takkan tido situ. Yela, ni citer experience org yg mende tu takde depan mata. Klau ada baby cot tu, tatau la. It may be different or even the same situation like this jugak. Entahla, tapi...I love to have her near me. Sampai skarang, dia manja. Dia akan tido dedkat myself or Mr P. Sometimes, tido pegang tangan. =) bole kekdg, dia bgn tetgh malam, cari papa dia, g tido kat papa dia. So, rasanya klau dulu beli, maybe gak baby cot tu jadi tempat letak brg or akan di let go secepat mungkin. Till now, dia still tido ngan we all. Ye ye, tau...pakar kata x bagus smp anak tu da besar. Effect itu ini. Yes, tau sume tu. But we have our own plans. How her own room will look like when she grows up. Meanwhile, we want her to be really close with us as much as possible. Kang da besar, naturally (apart from dia akan dididik), dia mesti nak tido sendiri, in her own room. Bila anak da besar, sibuk lak nanti soh dia dekat n spend time dkat2 ngan kita kan? So, time kecik ni, biar la dimaksimumkan.
Time baru2 blaja makan super solid food (yang takyah nak blend2), mmg slalu we all makan mouth-to-mouth. Kekdg in public, org pandang. But so what? Anak aku kottt. Xyah guna tgn, rasa dia da takde sket (so that tak pedas or masam sgt) or telah dichew sikit.
Damia ada collection baju yg sgt byk. Ada satu kotak dah di let go. Satu kotak, masih disimpan coz mama dia syg sgt sgt. Highly likely boleh digunakan oleh adik(s) damia. Satu ag big stack - for her current usage. So that day, terpaksa g ikea jap, beli almari for her. Tung tang tung tang papa dia pasang, nak letak baju/dress dia yang byk tu. Collection kasut - bole tahan la. Now ada dia kotak kasut, penuh. Satu for below 6m. Satu ag above 6m. Siap label bagai. =)
Damia...1.5 years (episode 3)
Ckp psal independent, penah time tu, I had 3 weeks training with the US and Bratislava team, like twice or 3x a week. Malam lak tu. Around 9pm till 12midnight or sometimes 10-12+ midnight. Then, dia akan main/stay at GM and Tok D's room or maybe dia naik atas katil, susun bantal, minum susu, tgk her fav cartoon: Pooh, Agent Oso, Mickey. Cian je...kekdg trus tetido. But I tried la, tepuk2 dia jugak, buatkan susu semua for her while attending d training. Training via phone, so I mute it la. Penah skali tu, they asked me, whether u agree ke tak wif dat position. Then, I unmute the button and answered, yes. Dpt lak time tu damia tgh nangis. N my mgr there said, "hmm...but I don't think your baby agrees with you." And everyone laughed. Damia damiaaaa...bertuah sungguh la awak ni.
Dari segi sopan santun n agama, dia da pandai a few things jugak aaa. Nak solat (like I explained above). Abis azan, bila kata, "damia, baca doa", dia akan tadah tgn. Camtu gak lepas solat. Bila "aminnn" tu yg laju je tgn smp ke muka. Cuttteeee sgt!! =) also, bila suruh bersalam ngan org. Dia akan salam, cium tangan. Bila dia bagi brg or dpt brg drpd org, slalu dia akan ckp "ashih" = terima kasih. Pandai kan? (Ye ye, saya puji anak sendiri. Sila jgn puke ye....=) )
Amik lotion, sapu sendiri. Haaa....ni lagi satu fav stuff yg dia suka buat. We all slalu before tido, akan letak lotion kat kaki and tangan. So, dia tahu, while watching her fav cartoon, on the way nak tido tu, she'll request for the body lotion. Disebabkan both of us guna Johnson's, so bole la damia pun guna skali. Dia akan sapu kat kaki sendiri....tiru gaya the parents.
Lagi satu, disebabkan time preggie, I was a bit rajin kemas rumah. Plus, damia lak duduk ngan GM. Hari2 tgk GM kemas itu ini, lap sana sini. So, now, dia sgt rajin. Klau dia tumpahkan air, dia akan mintak kain nak lap. Or dia nampak kotor ke ape ke, dia nak lap. Jgn la bagi dia baby wipes tu. Abis dia g lap sana sini. Can't remember whether I've mentioned it in previous entry ke tak (tak ingat la). That time, we all g visit my colleague baru deliver. Then, my colleague kasi dia yakult. Yakult tu tumpah sket atas meja. Dia mintak beg, nak amik baby wipes. Then, dia lap. Nak wat citer ag best, dia angkat skali org tu punya alas meja, lapppp sume meja tu. Ya rabbi, malu gak la kejap time tu. But "terhibur" ngan perangai dia. End up, we all gelak je. Coz, meja tu mmg xde habuk, but dia akan lap, sampai dia satisfied. Kat umah, klau blk air basah, dia akan amik towel, nak lap blk air tu. =)
Dari segi sopan santun n agama, dia da pandai a few things jugak aaa. Nak solat (like I explained above). Abis azan, bila kata, "damia, baca doa", dia akan tadah tgn. Camtu gak lepas solat. Bila "aminnn" tu yg laju je tgn smp ke muka. Cuttteeee sgt!! =) also, bila suruh bersalam ngan org. Dia akan salam, cium tangan. Bila dia bagi brg or dpt brg drpd org, slalu dia akan ckp "ashih" = terima kasih. Pandai kan? (Ye ye, saya puji anak sendiri. Sila jgn puke ye....=) )
Amik lotion, sapu sendiri. Haaa....ni lagi satu fav stuff yg dia suka buat. We all slalu before tido, akan letak lotion kat kaki and tangan. So, dia tahu, while watching her fav cartoon, on the way nak tido tu, she'll request for the body lotion. Disebabkan both of us guna Johnson's, so bole la damia pun guna skali. Dia akan sapu kat kaki sendiri....tiru gaya the parents.
Lagi satu, disebabkan time preggie, I was a bit rajin kemas rumah. Plus, damia lak duduk ngan GM. Hari2 tgk GM kemas itu ini, lap sana sini. So, now, dia sgt rajin. Klau dia tumpahkan air, dia akan mintak kain nak lap. Or dia nampak kotor ke ape ke, dia nak lap. Jgn la bagi dia baby wipes tu. Abis dia g lap sana sini. Can't remember whether I've mentioned it in previous entry ke tak (tak ingat la). That time, we all g visit my colleague baru deliver. Then, my colleague kasi dia yakult. Yakult tu tumpah sket atas meja. Dia mintak beg, nak amik baby wipes. Then, dia lap. Nak wat citer ag best, dia angkat skali org tu punya alas meja, lapppp sume meja tu. Ya rabbi, malu gak la kejap time tu. But "terhibur" ngan perangai dia. End up, we all gelak je. Coz, meja tu mmg xde habuk, but dia akan lap, sampai dia satisfied. Kat umah, klau blk air basah, dia akan amik towel, nak lap blk air tu. =)
Damia...1.5 years (episode 2)
Early december. Apa development damia for the past 6m? Actually kan, more for damia to read this when dia da besar nanti. Hopefully the blog is still "alive". Ok, things that I can remember la...
Dia da ada 12 batang gigi. 4 depan, atas bwh. Lagi dua gigi geraham atas bwh, kiri kanan. Lagi ligat dia mengunyah. Now, apa saja dia nak try, dia try je. Be it durian, coffee, tea, memacam cordial and food. Bagi jea dia rasa. InsyaAllah, tak memudaratkan. X kasi, dia nak rasa gak. So, bagi jela dia rasa. Rasa dlu, if dia suke, bagi but moderately la. Like coffee tu maybe one two sip. Teh tarik tu kekdg ada la gak smp segelas dia bantai sorang. Alhamdulillah, takde pape, ok la (kot). Tau, tau....perut dia x "matured" lagi, etc etc. Tau, thanks kepada sesiapa yg nak nasihatkan. No nooo....not being sarcastic. Seriously, thanks for the concern. Cuma kekdg, we all cair gak, follow gak apa dia nak.
Dia pandai mengajuk. Yela, at her age, sng dia nak absorb. Ape kita buat, apa org keliling buat/ckp. Klau baby menangis, dia suke mengajuk n then gelakkan balik. Sabo jela tau. Tapi, byk ag yg positive ajukkan tu. Perlakuan - klau nak solat dia tahu nak bentang sejadah and dia ajuk cara kita solat. Kekdg, dia buat gaya angkat takbiratulihram and dia sebut Allahuakbar (dgn pelat dia) , suruh duduk bila makan or minum, amik brg, amik hp, buat susu, nak main, pegi sana sini. Klau nak kua tu, dia tau kena pegi amik kunci, kasut, mana nak simpan balik. Dia anak yang menurut kata. So, dia mudah belajar. Syukur Alhamdulillah. Satu faktor adalah, dia memang anak yang bijak. Damia, maksudnya kebijakan. Satu lagi faktor adalah, sebab ni kurniaan Allah SWT. Damia ni memang tak susah nak ngandung dia, lahir dia, jaga dia. Syukur syukur. Satu lagi faktor = get her involvement in every matters. Sbb I believe, anak yang tak ramai sgt, sng nak buat dia terinvolve sama dgn ape kita buat/fikir. Nanti I will post one entry about quantity / bilangan anak that bothers me a lot.
Ok, back to involvement tu. Drpd dia dalam perut, byk mende yang jadi, I will talk to her. Explain to her. Walaupun dia belum kua lagi. Now, bila dia da besar ni pun, memang I will try to explain to her, mcm org besar. Cerita je kat dia. Macam dia paham je kan? But yes, that's my approach. She's like my bestfriend, bkn anak. Except for the part yg dia notty sikit. Kena gak tempik, marah, kena pukul, sepak muka. Kena jugakkkk......
Tapi bila time main, main la. Kejar2, gelak2, gomol2, cium2. So, penuh perhatian kat dia. Damia ni, kalau nak keluar, dia tahu nak pilih baju mana. Kasut mana, ape kena buat, ape nak amik. Like beg susu dia, selimut dia, tak tinggal. Suruh dia duduk, pegi basuh tangan, buka baju nak mandi. Contohnya, bila dia nak mandi, dia nak amik sendiri bath tub. Dia nak bersihkan balik bath tub yg penuh buih tu. Dia nak bersihkan balik lantai yang byk buih and sabun tu. Kasi jela. But kena monitor. Kasi dia chance nak buat bende sama yang kita buat so that she could learn. Damia start buat byk mende sendiri after her first birthday, till now. Dia sgt independent.
Dia da ada 12 batang gigi. 4 depan, atas bwh. Lagi dua gigi geraham atas bwh, kiri kanan. Lagi ligat dia mengunyah. Now, apa saja dia nak try, dia try je. Be it durian, coffee, tea, memacam cordial and food. Bagi jea dia rasa. InsyaAllah, tak memudaratkan. X kasi, dia nak rasa gak. So, bagi jela dia rasa. Rasa dlu, if dia suke, bagi but moderately la. Like coffee tu maybe one two sip. Teh tarik tu kekdg ada la gak smp segelas dia bantai sorang. Alhamdulillah, takde pape, ok la (kot). Tau, tau....perut dia x "matured" lagi, etc etc. Tau, thanks kepada sesiapa yg nak nasihatkan. No nooo....not being sarcastic. Seriously, thanks for the concern. Cuma kekdg, we all cair gak, follow gak apa dia nak.
Dia pandai mengajuk. Yela, at her age, sng dia nak absorb. Ape kita buat, apa org keliling buat/ckp. Klau baby menangis, dia suke mengajuk n then gelakkan balik. Sabo jela tau. Tapi, byk ag yg positive ajukkan tu. Perlakuan - klau nak solat dia tahu nak bentang sejadah and dia ajuk cara kita solat. Kekdg, dia buat gaya angkat takbiratulihram and dia sebut Allahuakbar (dgn pelat dia) , suruh duduk bila makan or minum, amik brg, amik hp, buat susu, nak main, pegi sana sini. Klau nak kua tu, dia tau kena pegi amik kunci, kasut, mana nak simpan balik. Dia anak yang menurut kata. So, dia mudah belajar. Syukur Alhamdulillah. Satu faktor adalah, dia memang anak yang bijak. Damia, maksudnya kebijakan. Satu lagi faktor adalah, sebab ni kurniaan Allah SWT. Damia ni memang tak susah nak ngandung dia, lahir dia, jaga dia. Syukur syukur. Satu lagi faktor = get her involvement in every matters. Sbb I believe, anak yang tak ramai sgt, sng nak buat dia terinvolve sama dgn ape kita buat/fikir. Nanti I will post one entry about quantity / bilangan anak that bothers me a lot.
Ok, back to involvement tu. Drpd dia dalam perut, byk mende yang jadi, I will talk to her. Explain to her. Walaupun dia belum kua lagi. Now, bila dia da besar ni pun, memang I will try to explain to her, mcm org besar. Cerita je kat dia. Macam dia paham je kan? But yes, that's my approach. She's like my bestfriend, bkn anak. Except for the part yg dia notty sikit. Kena gak tempik, marah, kena pukul, sepak muka. Kena jugakkkk......
Tapi bila time main, main la. Kejar2, gelak2, gomol2, cium2. So, penuh perhatian kat dia. Damia ni, kalau nak keluar, dia tahu nak pilih baju mana. Kasut mana, ape kena buat, ape nak amik. Like beg susu dia, selimut dia, tak tinggal. Suruh dia duduk, pegi basuh tangan, buka baju nak mandi. Contohnya, bila dia nak mandi, dia nak amik sendiri bath tub. Dia nak bersihkan balik bath tub yg penuh buih tu. Dia nak bersihkan balik lantai yang byk buih and sabun tu. Kasi jela. But kena monitor. Kasi dia chance nak buat bende sama yang kita buat so that she could learn. Damia start buat byk mende sendiri after her first birthday, till now. Dia sgt independent.
Damia...1.5 years (episode 1)
This post is supposed to be dated Aug 19.
Damia is now 76cm and 9.45kg - as per her last check up, early July. Alhamdulillah, belum ada lagi immunization yg termiss. Stakat ni, semua da lengkap. Together with pneumococoal n rota virus punya jab yg mahal tu...takpela, demi anak. Syukur alhamdulillah...ada rezeki nak kasi dia yg terbaik.
So far, damia da laju da jalan...she started her first step somewhere in june. Baby steps. Now, bila balik umah tu, bole la nampak dia berjalan laju2 ke arah kita. Syukur syukur...
Next, drpd kecik memang everytime azan, I will "jawab azan" tu dekat ngan dia n bacakan doa selepas azan. Now, she knows. Kalau lepas azan je, dia akan tadah tangan, mcm nak baca doa. Alhamdulillah...semoga anak mama menjadi anak yg solehah.
Dia dah pandai...mcm orang besarrrr...when u laugh, she'll imitate. She'll laugh along. At times, mende tu funny, cuma u tak laugh out loud and yet, mcm dia tau pulak mende tu kelakar, so, dia akan tetibe gelak.
Jerit - fav past time damia jugak. Klau nak kata kena sepak kat muka tu, mmg da byk kali gak la. Coz unnecessarily nangis + mama dia ngantuk or penat. At night, sometimes when mama dia penat sgt, bole smp mimpi2 - ingatkan da buat susu. Rupanya, tu sume hanya mimpi. Cian anak mama kekdg lapar jap (bole gak jadi smp sejam dua). Klau papa dia balik lmbt, lucky la, bole notice dat she was crying and he'll prepare the milk for her.
At 13 months, she knows a few more things. If mende jatuh, somehow she'll say d word "jatuh" with her own accent, "nak" refers to various things - semua pun nak nak nak. But, if we ask her if she wants milk or not, by showing d bottle, and she will either nod or shook her head. If dia tanak sesatu mende tu, dia akan geleng sendiri. Officially pegang botol on her own - after her bday dat day. Maybe dia baru nak balancekan..almaklumlah, botol tommee tippee mama dia belikan tu kan gemuk. Heheheh...
Lagi satu bila org da start pakai tudung ataupun amik kunci kete, she knows - heyyy...everyone is going out. I don't want to be left alone at home. Maka, dia akan terkedek2 or uh uh uh, soh dukung coz nak ikut skali. And dgn pantasnya, lambai kat semua org. Kalau gi shopping mall tu, papa dia ckup suka dukung. Coz mcm direct contact ngan dia. In addition, amoi2 lawa tu, akan pandang kat papa dia coz damia akan bye bye kat dorg. N bdk ni pun pandai memilih, yg lawa2 je dia lambai. Pastu dia senyum ag tu. So, manalahhhh saham papa dia x naik agi kan? Maka, stroller yg smp 1k+ tu pun diabaikan. Bazir je. Butttt...kekdg, ada la gunanye stroller tu. Let's say for example Mr P busy kat restaurant dia...we all g ikea ke ape ke, berdua je. Bole je...susu sume (letak dlm beg Guess - tak ler nampak mcm beg susu sgt kan?), then, handle damia and kua msukkan stroller (10kg tau!). Ala...mothers..can handle nyerla...takde hal. All the mothers out there, bole je sebenarnye if nak kuar berdua ngan baby. Dat day, beli brg kat ikea, smp penuh kete, bole je handle bdk skali. InsyaAllah...doa yg terbaik, nanti dipermudahkan.
In d car...nowadays, hanya 10% of the time dia nak duduk kat car seat. Lelain tu, duduk on d lap of d passenger or the driver. So, kalau berdua ngan dia tu, mmg dia akan dok kat driver la. Bahaya? Yes..tapi nak buat cemane? Takkan nak biar anak melalak terlolong, pastu terjatuh kat bwh pe bagai kan? Terpaksa la. Kdg dia menghadap myself and tetido atas dada. Comeyyy je. Syukur alhamdulillah, tak penah ada lagi incident yang tak diingini berlaku. Tapi, kena master bab drive satu tangan and also bwk kete auto la. Another one, dia pantang masuk kete, mesti nak kena on radio. Then, bdn goyang2 depan blakang ikut music. Buttt...anak saya pandai memilih. If lagu rancak je. If lagu slow2, dia x layan. Dia akan resah gelisah n she'll change the station. Pandai kan?
Syukur alhamdulillah. Semoga damia membesar menjadi anak yang bijak bistari, solehah, menghormati org tua, pemurah dan berkepimpinan tinggi, insyaAllah.
Damia is now 76cm and 9.45kg - as per her last check up, early July. Alhamdulillah, belum ada lagi immunization yg termiss. Stakat ni, semua da lengkap. Together with pneumococoal n rota virus punya jab yg mahal tu...takpela, demi anak. Syukur alhamdulillah...ada rezeki nak kasi dia yg terbaik.
So far, damia da laju da jalan...she started her first step somewhere in june. Baby steps. Now, bila balik umah tu, bole la nampak dia berjalan laju2 ke arah kita. Syukur syukur...
Next, drpd kecik memang everytime azan, I will "jawab azan" tu dekat ngan dia n bacakan doa selepas azan. Now, she knows. Kalau lepas azan je, dia akan tadah tangan, mcm nak baca doa. Alhamdulillah...semoga anak mama menjadi anak yg solehah.
Dia dah pandai...mcm orang besarrrr...when u laugh, she'll imitate. She'll laugh along. At times, mende tu funny, cuma u tak laugh out loud and yet, mcm dia tau pulak mende tu kelakar, so, dia akan tetibe gelak.
Jerit - fav past time damia jugak. Klau nak kata kena sepak kat muka tu, mmg da byk kali gak la. Coz unnecessarily nangis + mama dia ngantuk or penat. At night, sometimes when mama dia penat sgt, bole smp mimpi2 - ingatkan da buat susu. Rupanya, tu sume hanya mimpi. Cian anak mama kekdg lapar jap (bole gak jadi smp sejam dua). Klau papa dia balik lmbt, lucky la, bole notice dat she was crying and he'll prepare the milk for her.
At 13 months, she knows a few more things. If mende jatuh, somehow she'll say d word "jatuh" with her own accent, "nak" refers to various things - semua pun nak nak nak. But, if we ask her if she wants milk or not, by showing d bottle, and she will either nod or shook her head. If dia tanak sesatu mende tu, dia akan geleng sendiri. Officially pegang botol on her own - after her bday dat day. Maybe dia baru nak balancekan..almaklumlah, botol tommee tippee mama dia belikan tu kan gemuk. Heheheh...
Lagi satu bila org da start pakai tudung ataupun amik kunci kete, she knows - heyyy...everyone is going out. I don't want to be left alone at home. Maka, dia akan terkedek2 or uh uh uh, soh dukung coz nak ikut skali. And dgn pantasnya, lambai kat semua org. Kalau gi shopping mall tu, papa dia ckup suka dukung. Coz mcm direct contact ngan dia. In addition, amoi2 lawa tu, akan pandang kat papa dia coz damia akan bye bye kat dorg. N bdk ni pun pandai memilih, yg lawa2 je dia lambai. Pastu dia senyum ag tu. So, manalahhhh saham papa dia x naik agi kan? Maka, stroller yg smp 1k+ tu pun diabaikan. Bazir je. Butttt...kekdg, ada la gunanye stroller tu. Let's say for example Mr P busy kat restaurant dia...we all g ikea ke ape ke, berdua je. Bole je...susu sume (letak dlm beg Guess - tak ler nampak mcm beg susu sgt kan?), then, handle damia and kua msukkan stroller (10kg tau!). Ala...mothers..can handle nyerla...takde hal. All the mothers out there, bole je sebenarnye if nak kuar berdua ngan baby. Dat day, beli brg kat ikea, smp penuh kete, bole je handle bdk skali. InsyaAllah...doa yg terbaik, nanti dipermudahkan.
In d car...nowadays, hanya 10% of the time dia nak duduk kat car seat. Lelain tu, duduk on d lap of d passenger or the driver. So, kalau berdua ngan dia tu, mmg dia akan dok kat driver la. Bahaya? Yes..tapi nak buat cemane? Takkan nak biar anak melalak terlolong, pastu terjatuh kat bwh pe bagai kan? Terpaksa la. Kdg dia menghadap myself and tetido atas dada. Comeyyy je. Syukur alhamdulillah, tak penah ada lagi incident yang tak diingini berlaku. Tapi, kena master bab drive satu tangan and also bwk kete auto la. Another one, dia pantang masuk kete, mesti nak kena on radio. Then, bdn goyang2 depan blakang ikut music. Buttt...anak saya pandai memilih. If lagu rancak je. If lagu slow2, dia x layan. Dia akan resah gelisah n she'll change the station. Pandai kan?
Syukur alhamdulillah. Semoga damia membesar menjadi anak yang bijak bistari, solehah, menghormati org tua, pemurah dan berkepimpinan tinggi, insyaAllah.
Friday, December 16, 2011
For quite some time...
It has been awhile, since I really update this blog. Banyak sgt mende jadi for the couple of months, but I tried to restrict myself utk tak tulis blog too frequent or perhaps, if frequent pun, bkn about the same thing again n again. Bosan la...baca about the same thing je. Mcm daily calender pulak kan? Everyday pasal anak buat ape, pegi sana sini, padahal bkn big deal pun, so typical, normal n boring. So, malas la nak update if those are the things/event attended/places went to. Kekdg tu yes la nak update. But if every week, balik kampung la, pegi wedding la ape la...tak ke mcm bosan? Ntah la...personal view je. Other ppl might like it. Like to read. Like to write. I don't know. I might not like it now but perhaps I tend to change my preference in the future? Who knows kan?
People grow up. People changed. I'm just gonna type some boring stuffs here. Some stuffs that I've observed for quite some time. Some stuffs which I think I'm going to do a bit of judging + mengomen itu ini.
- Ex colleagues : I don't quite like certain of you. You have done stuffs which I don't like in the past. So, please....I may not want to be your fb friend or even keep in touch with you. Ada jugak, yang bila da jadi mak/bapak org, they changed. They tried to be nice to you. But perhaps, when we were small - schooling time, u buat mcm tu, maybe la skarang bole terima, coz time tu zaman kanak2 riang. But u buat when semua da besar. So, you don't deserve to be treated like a "friend". I do still remember who you are, regardless how much changes you have done.
- Ex boyfriends or girlfriend to ex bfs : Same like above, cuma certain of you, I just don't wanna keep in touch with you. Not to say that you have hurt me ke ape ke but more of, enough la. Tak nak close lagi. Boleh? Stop trying to impress or act nice when u have udang di sebalik batu. Or if you are the partner of my ex - syukur alhamdulillah, perhaps, you are the better one who suits that person. Ko nak kawin, bercinta semegah mana ke, semundur mana ke, nak telungkup ke ape ke, I don't care and I have my own life. Sila la mind your own business.
- Kengkwn skolah version 1: Ramai now dah jadi lecturer / cikgu. Tapi....dlu kat skolah, ramai di antara anda yang dok kat class paling mundur...kat blakang tu, results pun agak hampeh. N now ur telling me that ur a teacher/lecturer? Kat fb ke social network ke ape ke, English tunggang langgang. Pastu dia jadi cikgu/lecturer? Ye, saya tak memandang rendah pada anda semua. Tapi...helloooo....camne I nak percaya the future generation untuk diletak di bawah didikan anda semua, when you urself, last time, produced bad results (dulu), was not hardworking enough (dulu), English tunggang langgang (now)? Bayangkan, buat announcement / good luck with via fb / twitter dgn English camtu? Dgn Bahasa Melayu camtu? Or ada yang anak murid ramai in your friends list and yet, the status, nak mengada menggedik ngan bf. Or gamba yang seksi meksi satu macam. Like, nanti kalau anak-anak pegi sekolah? Dorang pun mengutuk, "uish, cikgu ni, kat sekolah nasihat org bagai, soh buat baik, improve itu ini. Dia tu?" Uishh...risaunye...Bukan ape, sesetgh profession, memang kena restrict kan memende camtu. Memang tak sesuai. It depends on who are there in your list. Bayangkan klau cikgu kita sendiri tulis memende camtu, gamba "berbagai-bagai", tak ke kita pun to certain extend memandang rendah pada mereka?
- Kengkwn skolah version 2: Ramai jugak yang dah jadi doctor. Tapi, sikit2 komen teruk2 kat fb. Ye, faham...profession tu requires you to be involved in one's health condition. Hidup mati jugak. Tapi, bayangkan, kalau kita g jumpa doc, balik tu doc tu komen psal pesakit, psal camne teruknye hidup dia, camne teruknya profession tu, camne bosannye jadi doc, camne teruknya pesakit like klau tak serious takyah la pegi emergency, pasal berapa byk kes dia buat hari tu. Poyo + bosan + tak suke ok? Like....bayangkan klau accountant citer, brape byk acc dia kena settle, brape byk tax comp yang ada so high tax position, or secretary yang citer brape byk surat dia kena type, or maybe architect - brape byk draft dia kena lukis, amend. Tak ke bosan? Yela...we all ni tak involve hidup mati, but it doesn't make your profession tu gempak giler sgt. Poyo ok? Lain la klau u citer...owh...dorang discover penyakit ni, nowadays. Camni cara nak take precaution. Things like dat. Best la sket. Terasa la doc tu sgt encouraging. Nowadays, mcm kes gynae or paed Damia, memang we really look into the matter of finding those doc yang sgt encouraging, positive, "personal" tau. Rather than these type of doctors. Perhaps I'm not good with words. I don't really know how to describe these doctors but personally, we were really choosy when choosing our own doctors yang akan divisit secara kerap.
It's Friday. Not in the mood of doing so much work. Going back home now. Will update more, when I have the time.
People grow up. People changed. I'm just gonna type some boring stuffs here. Some stuffs that I've observed for quite some time. Some stuffs which I think I'm going to do a bit of judging + mengomen itu ini.
- Ex colleagues : I don't quite like certain of you. You have done stuffs which I don't like in the past. So, please....I may not want to be your fb friend or even keep in touch with you. Ada jugak, yang bila da jadi mak/bapak org, they changed. They tried to be nice to you. But perhaps, when we were small - schooling time, u buat mcm tu, maybe la skarang bole terima, coz time tu zaman kanak2 riang. But u buat when semua da besar. So, you don't deserve to be treated like a "friend". I do still remember who you are, regardless how much changes you have done.
- Ex boyfriends or girlfriend to ex bfs : Same like above, cuma certain of you, I just don't wanna keep in touch with you. Not to say that you have hurt me ke ape ke but more of, enough la. Tak nak close lagi. Boleh? Stop trying to impress or act nice when u have udang di sebalik batu. Or if you are the partner of my ex - syukur alhamdulillah, perhaps, you are the better one who suits that person. Ko nak kawin, bercinta semegah mana ke, semundur mana ke, nak telungkup ke ape ke, I don't care and I have my own life. Sila la mind your own business.
- Kengkwn skolah version 1: Ramai now dah jadi lecturer / cikgu. Tapi....dlu kat skolah, ramai di antara anda yang dok kat class paling mundur...kat blakang tu, results pun agak hampeh. N now ur telling me that ur a teacher/lecturer? Kat fb ke social network ke ape ke, English tunggang langgang. Pastu dia jadi cikgu/lecturer? Ye, saya tak memandang rendah pada anda semua. Tapi...helloooo....camne I nak percaya the future generation untuk diletak di bawah didikan anda semua, when you urself, last time, produced bad results (dulu), was not hardworking enough (dulu), English tunggang langgang (now)? Bayangkan, buat announcement / good luck with via fb / twitter dgn English camtu? Dgn Bahasa Melayu camtu? Or ada yang anak murid ramai in your friends list and yet, the status, nak mengada menggedik ngan bf. Or gamba yang seksi meksi satu macam. Like, nanti kalau anak-anak pegi sekolah? Dorang pun mengutuk, "uish, cikgu ni, kat sekolah nasihat org bagai, soh buat baik, improve itu ini. Dia tu?" Uishh...risaunye...Bukan ape, sesetgh profession, memang kena restrict kan memende camtu. Memang tak sesuai. It depends on who are there in your list. Bayangkan klau cikgu kita sendiri tulis memende camtu, gamba "berbagai-bagai", tak ke kita pun to certain extend memandang rendah pada mereka?
- Kengkwn skolah version 2: Ramai jugak yang dah jadi doctor. Tapi, sikit2 komen teruk2 kat fb. Ye, faham...profession tu requires you to be involved in one's health condition. Hidup mati jugak. Tapi, bayangkan, kalau kita g jumpa doc, balik tu doc tu komen psal pesakit, psal camne teruknye hidup dia, camne teruknya profession tu, camne bosannye jadi doc, camne teruknya pesakit like klau tak serious takyah la pegi emergency, pasal berapa byk kes dia buat hari tu. Poyo + bosan + tak suke ok? Like....bayangkan klau accountant citer, brape byk acc dia kena settle, brape byk tax comp yang ada so high tax position, or secretary yang citer brape byk surat dia kena type, or maybe architect - brape byk draft dia kena lukis, amend. Tak ke bosan? Yela...we all ni tak involve hidup mati, but it doesn't make your profession tu gempak giler sgt. Poyo ok? Lain la klau u citer...owh...dorang discover penyakit ni, nowadays. Camni cara nak take precaution. Things like dat. Best la sket. Terasa la doc tu sgt encouraging. Nowadays, mcm kes gynae or paed Damia, memang we really look into the matter of finding those doc yang sgt encouraging, positive, "personal" tau. Rather than these type of doctors. Perhaps I'm not good with words. I don't really know how to describe these doctors but personally, we were really choosy when choosing our own doctors yang akan divisit secara kerap.
It's Friday. Not in the mood of doing so much work. Going back home now. Will update more, when I have the time.
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